Hey anons, need some advice
>have amazing gf of almost 1 year
>her and I both feminist and leftists
>always respectful to her
>generally vanilla sex, but she does like me to be “dominant”
>comes over to place
>As she sees me, she exitedly starts talking
>”hii anaon! I’ve missed you, and guess what? Just the other-“
>as a joke, I cut her off in a southern accent saying, “shut the fuck up slut, I didn’t invite you over here to talk, you’re here to serve me. Now get on your knees”
>obviously a joke, no?
>she went silent and got on her knees
>what??
>i quickly stop her and explain it was a bit
>both embarrassed
>I inquired why she did that and tell her I’ll always be respectful to her and she should never put up with sexism
>she explains it turned her on?
>apparently she has a bdsm misogyny/conservative kink?

So thats the issue. I’m happy to support and engage in her kinks, but I don’t know if I should. Would it be sexist of me? I’m honestly not that comfortable with the idea of purposely mistreating her and being conservative and sexist. But it is apparently one of her biggest fantasies so idk. Also, I’m not even sure how one goes about being sexist?? Do I just be an asshole? I figure you guys would know.