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6/26/2025, 4:39:04 PM
>>7622454
NTA but I would say that an image is arousing if it gives off an impression of sexual maturity, vitality, and availability.
An image on a nude woman with large breasts and wide hips is an obvious example of sexual maturity, and is arousing. But most people would be even more aroused if the woman was dressed in something revealing because of what it suggests: she has big tits, she knows she has big tits, and she wants (you) and the world to see that she has big tits because she wants to fuck (you). This is what I meant by "sexual availability."
Although people are also aroused by things which seemingly conflict with the above principles of maturity and availability. Consider any porn which involves a cheating gf/spouse. In this case the appeal comes from the woman NOT being available to you. Or consider how many people on here swear that peak eroticism comes in the form of a small, flat-chested, and generally shapeless (18yo) girl. This seems to contradict the notion of sexual maturity being a hallmark of arousal.
But both of these examples share something in common: they're both demonstrations of vitality. The woman cheating on her husband with a more vital lover is throwing away her common societal notions of honor, love, and duty all in the pursuit of cheap orgasmic thrill; it's a portrayal of raw, animalistic sexual hunger and libido.
The appeal of the flat-chested and seemingly unappealing woman is more easy to explain: she reminds the viewer of youth, and youth=vitality. She is also less threatening than the large-chested more overtly mature woman. This ties back to the notion of availability.
That's my opinion anyway. Sorry for writing a whole essay.
NTA but I would say that an image is arousing if it gives off an impression of sexual maturity, vitality, and availability.
An image on a nude woman with large breasts and wide hips is an obvious example of sexual maturity, and is arousing. But most people would be even more aroused if the woman was dressed in something revealing because of what it suggests: she has big tits, she knows she has big tits, and she wants (you) and the world to see that she has big tits because she wants to fuck (you). This is what I meant by "sexual availability."
Although people are also aroused by things which seemingly conflict with the above principles of maturity and availability. Consider any porn which involves a cheating gf/spouse. In this case the appeal comes from the woman NOT being available to you. Or consider how many people on here swear that peak eroticism comes in the form of a small, flat-chested, and generally shapeless (18yo) girl. This seems to contradict the notion of sexual maturity being a hallmark of arousal.
But both of these examples share something in common: they're both demonstrations of vitality. The woman cheating on her husband with a more vital lover is throwing away her common societal notions of honor, love, and duty all in the pursuit of cheap orgasmic thrill; it's a portrayal of raw, animalistic sexual hunger and libido.
The appeal of the flat-chested and seemingly unappealing woman is more easy to explain: she reminds the viewer of youth, and youth=vitality. She is also less threatening than the large-chested more overtly mature woman. This ties back to the notion of availability.
That's my opinion anyway. Sorry for writing a whole essay.
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