It's so fucked up, man. I truly do envy you guys being able to so casually join a Discord server and _just_ talk to people. I'm more of a forum guy. I remember I "friended" someone here on Discord, a service I haven't used much since 2019. We talked a bit and then they just called me boring for not speaking much. It was very surprising to me. I didn't realize people wanted instant full fledged conversations. And the friends I did have before going dark were more assertive to me than I was with them. They dm'd first. They messaged first.