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7/4/2025, 12:55:39 AM
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>diapers being treated as a taboo
Not particularly? The specific incident there I did get chastised for it and they were hidden better, so maybe that counts? But they generally weren't brought up at all, before (not that I can remember) or after. Nor did we really have them around often. Pretty much the only place I saw them post-potty training was the cabana of the grandparent's pool, or stashed away due to someone my mother was babysitting. But by the time I started acting ABDL, I knew they were taboo and hid them so I wouldn't get caught.
>How'd you broach that subject?
With honesty and clear communication. I just kinda sat her down and said I have something to talk about. I didn't overstress the issue to make it bigger than it really was, or treat it as some evil niche deal-breaker. Because it really isn't. It's a taboo kink/fetish oft-mocked online, sure, but once explained it's not too interesting. And it worked both times I've had to do it, and neither went running for the hills. Maybe I got lucky. I just did my best to explain it as I understood it to be, what I liked out of it, where I thought it came from, etc.
>pick a weird sex thing from the /b/ catalog for the loser to do
That is a way to do it. Definitely more evasive than you probably should've done it.
>Have you talked to her about it?
In the past, yes, but not in a while. I've been meaning to have another sit-down talk about my own evolving understanding of ABDL, and I'll likely bring up her wearing again to see if her tune changed. She absolutely does trust me (and for that I'm thankful) but getting her to wear has been a boundary I've respected.
I just can't figure out the wording to "sell" doing normal, everyday things, but diapered, to her. And I'd need to assuage some other fears surrounding diapers she has, mostly chaffing related. How do I make playing video games or baking together, diapered, better than just doing them without the diapers?
>diapers being treated as a taboo
Not particularly? The specific incident there I did get chastised for it and they were hidden better, so maybe that counts? But they generally weren't brought up at all, before (not that I can remember) or after. Nor did we really have them around often. Pretty much the only place I saw them post-potty training was the cabana of the grandparent's pool, or stashed away due to someone my mother was babysitting. But by the time I started acting ABDL, I knew they were taboo and hid them so I wouldn't get caught.
>How'd you broach that subject?
With honesty and clear communication. I just kinda sat her down and said I have something to talk about. I didn't overstress the issue to make it bigger than it really was, or treat it as some evil niche deal-breaker. Because it really isn't. It's a taboo kink/fetish oft-mocked online, sure, but once explained it's not too interesting. And it worked both times I've had to do it, and neither went running for the hills. Maybe I got lucky. I just did my best to explain it as I understood it to be, what I liked out of it, where I thought it came from, etc.
>pick a weird sex thing from the /b/ catalog for the loser to do
That is a way to do it. Definitely more evasive than you probably should've done it.
>Have you talked to her about it?
In the past, yes, but not in a while. I've been meaning to have another sit-down talk about my own evolving understanding of ABDL, and I'll likely bring up her wearing again to see if her tune changed. She absolutely does trust me (and for that I'm thankful) but getting her to wear has been a boundary I've respected.
I just can't figure out the wording to "sell" doing normal, everyday things, but diapered, to her. And I'd need to assuage some other fears surrounding diapers she has, mostly chaffing related. How do I make playing video games or baking together, diapered, better than just doing them without the diapers?
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