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Adult women in diapers!

Any news or happenings?
Any new products on the market?
What you wearing?
What you watching?

>>2547784 (OP)
Simp for Scotty

>>2547788
I WILL simp for Scotty
>>2547789
I will NOT simp for piggies

>>2547791

>>2547795
I remember, I think on Tumblr she once posted about eating a whole pack of ham as a treat, and I just find that so cute. I want to cuddle Scotty and feed her little slices of ham.

>>2547784 (OP)
>Any news or happenings?
Yes but I don't want to mention them because the last thing these threads need is more ABDL drama.

>Any new products on the market?
I didn't realize but there is actually a new diaper release this month: https://cottontailz.ca/
Also, there's another new brand supposedly launching in July and PretendAgain has said they're coming out with a new design in the next few months.
That's wild because I thought for sure we wouldn't be seeing any new diaper releases with the Trump tariffs.

>What you wearing?
Bambino Magnfico
https://bambinodiapers.com/products/magnifico

>What you watching?
I am autistically watching a bunch of DnD videos on Youtube for mechanics that I will never use or implement but sound interesting.
If you mean in terms of porn I've been seeing some old ABDreams videos I've had saved.

>>2547843
>Yes but I don't want to mention them because the last thing these threads need is more ABDL drama.
Better than no discussion at all honestly
>there is actually a new diaper release this month
Pics?
>I am autistically watching a bunch of DnD videos on Youtube for mechanics that I will never use or implement but sound interesting.
5e or are you a 5.5 traitor?

>>2547845

Not OP but 3.5 yo. And then Pathfinder is where it's at.

>>2547845
>Better than no discussion at all honestly
Depends on whether or not people are actually posting pics or information along with the bitchfest.

>Pics?
I don't have any but if you just want to see the diaper check out the website.
Here's Sunny modeling it though.

>5e or are you a 5.5 traitor?
5e but I've played 3.5e, 4e, and a handful of other non-DnD games. IDK what changed with the new ruleset but my understanding is that the basics are the same as 5e but they changed up a lot of the classes? I haven't dived into it but I wouldn't mind trying it out to see if it actually plays better.

>>2547846
>3.5
So, what's it like being past 30?
>>2547849
>IDK what changed with the new ruleset but my understanding is that the basics are the same as 5e but they changed up a lot of the classes?
Some of the class changes are pretty bad. You basically get nothing for the first 3 levels. It was intended to make multiclassing less abusable, but considering that was always an optional rule I don't get why they'd fuck over every class for something the DM could veto from the start.

They also nerfed a lot of spells. My precious Sleep became dumpster-tier and I am devastated. I hate what they've done the the race system too, because they've made it easy to min-max shit by not having anything tied to a specific race. Ironic really since they knee-capped multiclassing.
Haven't played it yet, but I think I'll be sticking to 5e. All the lead designers all quit Wizards too. It's a little funny watching Mearls say how the game has become, as if he didn't literally tweet in 2018 that rules complexity was gatekeeping intended to keep women out and that people who liked complex rules were "fired" from the game of D&D

If I had diaper girls playing tabletop or wearing elf ears I'd post em

>>2547853
I'll probably stick with 5e for the most part as most people I know are still familiar with it and most people don't have any desire to change. The game I actually play the most is probably Call of Cthulhu. And I want to play other games but it's tough to find people into branching out.

>If I had diaper girls playing tabletop or wearing elf ears I'd post em
Maybe I'm just fantasizing about it but getting a bunch of cute diapergirls in fantasy cosplay together to play DnD would probably be a killer actual play series.

>>2547854
>getting a bunch of cute diapergirls in fantasy cosplay together to play DnD would probably be a killer actual play series.
I've always wanted to ERP D&D with diapers. Warlock with mommydom arch fey, get diaper checks, a pacifier that stops me casting spells with verbal components etc.
Problem is I don't really want to play a real game of it with anyone. I don't know anyone I would be interesting in doing it with, and I'd probably not enjoy it as much if it didn't go how I imagined.

>>2547855
Same I love the idea of ABDL inspired DnD conceptually and I think the concepts would be fun to come up with and imagine but I can't imagine actually playing that with people. It would be incredibly cringey and weird.

>>2547856
It's funny because I'm the kind of person that doesn't believe in the "peanut butter in my chocolate" theory.
I remember years ago finding it very cringe that when people were asked what designs they would want on diapers they said shit like images from their hobbies and grown-up TV shows they were watching. I'm a bit of a purist who thinks that its kind of autistic to just smush together 2 things you like, because, well you like both right so surely they're better together???? I don't think this is true and most things are better enjoyed separately.
I don't play with diaper mods in videogames, and I don't play any fetish games either. But I think because of the actual roleplay aspect of it, diaper D&D lingers in my mind.

>>2547857
I think DnD+diapers is a fantastic concept. But I just know that playing that with actual ABDLs means everyone's going to be weird and cringey as hell.
If they were cute diapergirls it would still be cringey but at least it would make up for it.

>>2547858
>If they were cute diapergirls it would still be cringey
We need to change this reputation

>>2547861
Oh I mean I would absolutely love it. I would be incredibly entertained and watch every second of it.... but I can just imagine how awkward and cringey these girls would be trying to play ABDL DnD. There's no avoiding that.

>>2547887
Hate to be the one to break it to you, but Valen is a tranny.
It's obvious when you see it's face, and it does a just for fans with a bio woman and she posts about getting pacifier shaped chastity cages on her twitter.

That's it for now.

>>2548224
Nice dump. Cute girls the best.

>diaper fetish
>giantess fetish
>diapered giantess fetish
I'm cooked. There is no content for me, which is probably a good thing

>>2548253
Not a lot but there is art out there like that. I agree it's a niche within a niche but I'm into that too. If this thread wasn't real photos only I'd post a bit of the art I have saved.

>>2548253
I have some diapered giantess art, even though that's not my thing. It definitely exists.

Slow your horses, no need to hit image limit solo

>>2548292
>>2548294
Post away brothers

>>2548311
>>>/aco/8884355
Only one I've got upon glancing through my collection. Thought I had another.

>>2548332
this is my fav girl god she's so fucking hot

>>2548337
who is this? got any more?

>>2547784 (OP)
if there's a heaven, it's filled with cuties like her.

xtxgd

Last one for today

>>2548457
Dude you really don't need to post a thousand fucking pics. The last thread was up for literally 2 months. Somehow you've blown nearly half the image/bump limit of this thread in 4 days

Chill the fuck out, make a post a couple times a day. What's the point of dumping loads of content if the thread isn't around long enough for anyone to see it?

bless this thread omg

>>2548659
Bless us everyone

Can anyone positively identify the trauma/event that led them to have this kink/seek this behavior and imagery in general? Why not make it a discussion:
>which aspects of ABDL do you like (wearing, having your partner wear, usage, baby-related things, etc)?
>how long have you been into ABDL?
>what do you think caused you to be into ABDL?
>is it a lifestyle, fetish, or a kink for you?
>are you incontinent?
>does your partner participate? is she/he incontinent?

girl from discord. she from texas and drives for uber eats. told me she wears her diaper all day and makes posts looking to be degraded for it.

>>2548741

>>2548740
mine:
>>which aspects of ABDL do you like (wearing, having your partner wear, usage, baby-related things, etc)?
Wearing, having a girl wear for/with me, wetting. I also got cheated on and developed an infidelity kink, and my brain has combined them to the point that I'm into the idea of diapers as a sex-denial device.
>>how long have you been into ABDL?
I've had a fixation since I was little. I remember being obsessed with my little cousin's diapers when I was like 5, and I'll admit I felt them once which for sure got me in huge trouble. I also used to ask my mom if I could wear a diaper since my sister was still in them when I was that age, but she only ever allowed me to wear a towel pinned like a diaper.
>>what do you think caused you to be into ABDL?
The only events I can remember that might have contributed to it are my parents working a lot which probably resulted in me sitting in a dirty diaper for too long, and changing my sister's diaper once when I was little. Beyond that, it's just been a fixation as long as I can remember; I would put a baby doll diaper on my stuffed animals and obsess over visibly diapered characters (Tommy Pickles, that asian chick from Rugrats), and I was looking up adult diaper stuff before I ever hit puberty.
>>is it a lifestyle, fetish, or a kink for you?
Definitely a kink, and one I've tried to get away from for a while.
>>are you incontinent?
No, but I've definitely had accidents where I've wished I had a diaper handy since stepping away from things
>>does your partner participate? is she/he incontinent?
tfw no gf currently, and I've never gotten a girlfriend to participate. There was one girl who kept making jokes about pooping in a diaper and jokingly asking me to change her, but she'd always deny it when I'd ask if she was into it (with a look of feigned concern on my face, can't have my gf knowing my sexual preferences can I?). I also hooked up with a girl that I later found out was ABDL, but she found a bf

>>2548740
>>which aspects of ABDL do you like (wearing, having your partner wear, usage, baby-related things, etc)?
Me wearing, them wearing, both wearing, wetting and messing.
While I find pacifiers and onesies etc. cute/sexy as fuck, I'm not so much for people acting like retards.
>>how long have you been into ABDL?
Probably since I was around 13 or 14.
>>what do you think caused you to be into ABDL?
Kind of bridged into it from my pants wetting/shitting fetish. (Yes, I stumbled on some relatively extreme websites when I was young)
I have some vague memories of stuff when I was really young, but I'm going to try to psychoanalyse myself here.
>>is it a lifestyle, fetish, or a kink for you?
Fetish.
>>are you incontinent?
No.
>>does your partner participate? is she/he incontinent?
I'd need to get one first. It's an extremely small ABDL scene where I live.

>>2548740
>which aspects of ABDL do you like (wearing, having your partner wear, usage, baby-related things, etc)?
I'm almost entirely DL, so I wear and use (wetting only). Not a fan of baby-related stuff because it just looks awkward and forced. I'd absolutely love for my GF to wear and use as well (See below)

>how long have you been into ABDL?
For about as long as I can remember; since I was 4 or 5. Young me thought it was a bright idea to sneak and put on one of the pullups from another kid my mother was babysitting. Then it just, kinda, stuck with me. Reemerged a few years later when I truly discovered how that "google" thing worked before I hit puberty. I stole a few from another kid my mother babysat when I was a younger teen and finally bought my first pack before I moved out maybe 3 years ago?

>what do you think caused you to be into ABDL?
Haven't the faintest. Probably that early curiosity blossoming into something far larger over time.

>is it a lifestyle, fetish, or a kink for you?
Mostly kink, slight lifestyle? I don't need it to get off, and having normal sex is just better than anything I can do in a diaper, but I like wearing 24/7 for moderately long periods. I just wear until I get annoyed at it, which is somewhere from a few days to a few weeks. Then I take a break and return later.

>are you incontinent?
No

>does your partner participate? is she/he incontinent?
She does a little, and helps with changes and plays with my dick through the diaper. I'd absolutely love for her to wear every now and then, and I don't quite know how to sell it to her in a way that'll make her want to lounge around in a wet diaper for an afternoon. And I don't know whether it'll be as hot as I think it is. I think it'll be, but the only way to know is to do it. No she isn't IC. That any my own hypothetical IC is one of those super horny thoughts that dissipates quickly. It just seems like a right hassle that doesn't justify the rise it gives my dick.

>>2548740
Will I be compensated for participating in your study?

I have no trauma. My earliest memory of wanting to be in diapers was when I was maybe 2-4 when I found a box of diapers under the stairs in the house and got curious about them. I know I wanted to wear them again but wouldn’t be allowed so I put one of my stuffed animals in a diaper and took it to kindergarten
>which aspects of ABDL do you like (wearing, having your partner wear, usage, baby-related things, etc)?
I wear, I would want my partner to wear at least sometimes but probably wouldn’t want them to wear as often as me. I like regressing and being free from responsibility. Playing with baby toys and recreating what are literally the best years of life
>how long have you been into ABDL?
My entire life. Earliest memory of it age 2-4. I know I was envious of infant cousins at family reunions but can’t place those memories. I know I was really aware that I wishes I was a baby again around age 8.
>what do you think caused you to be into ABDL?
The objective fact that having people attend your every need, having no responsibilities so you’re not even expected to go potty and getting to play and be surrounded by soft things and bright colors is as good as life ever gets
>is it a lifestyle, fetish, or a kink for you?
I’m not sure you’ve made the difference clear
>are you incontinent?
No
>does your partner participate? is she/he incontinent?
Partners have participated. One broke up with me when they secretly found out before I told them.
None have been incontinent.

>>2548753
>I'm not so much for people acting like retards
This, and for me that's where it starts to feel creepy and shit. I think if I had a gf that needed littlespace I wouldn't feel comfortable sexualizing diaper stuff
>Fetish
so you literally can't get off without diapers? Has that been the case the entire time you've been into ABDL?

>>2548770
>Probably that early curiosity blossoming into something far larger over time
Real. Do you remember diapers being treated as a taboo or something you were chastised for playing with?
>She does a little, and helps with changes and plays with my dick through the diaper
How'd you broach that subject? I've only tried getting a gf into it once and it amounted to us betting that whoever won a game of pinball got to pick a weird sex thing from the /b/ catalog for the loser to do, and I tried to pick diapers as my thing. She didn't go for it lmao
>I'd absolutely love for her to wear
Have you talked to her about it? It sounds like she trusts you enough

>>2548816
>Will I be compensated for participating in your study?
We are (I am) a charity organization specializing in ABDL issues (making myself not feel so alone for having this kink), so no
>>2548816
>I know I was envious of infant cousins
I feel that. Did you ever try getting older relatives to diaper you?
>cont

>>2548847
>>2548816
>I’m not sure you’ve made the difference clear
-Lifestyle: It's part of your life, and you live it most days. Like DDLG girls who don't seek boyfriends; they seek DADDIES or cuck couples where the cuck is actually in chastity 24/7. A lifestyle may not even be sexual for you (littlespace, people who train themselves to be incontinent)
-Fetish: You NEED this thing to get off. For some people it's choking, feet, handcuffs. For a diaper fetishist, involvement of diapers is considered essential for sexual gratification, even if you can cum without it.
-Kink: It's a fun little thing you do to get off. Maybe you just look at diaper porn, maybe you wear once in a while for fun.
Some definitions also suggest that a fetish is something that turns you on regardless of context, whereas a kink only turns you on during sex.
>Partners have participated
How did that go? Any good stories? How did you broach the subject?

Also, thanks everyone for actually talking about this. Trying to actually talk about ABDL on /aco/ just devolves into arguments about trannies

>>2548847
>>2548848
>so you literally can't get off without diapers?
>Fetish: You NEED this thing to get off.
I don't recall this having such a strong definition.
Like, it's the main thing I'm into, and I don't really whack it to vanilla porn (why would I when there is stuff I'm more into available), but it's not that I think it's some hard requirement for anything.

>Some definitions also suggest that a fetish is something that turns you on regardless of context
Maybe that. If I saw a diaper waistband sticking out of someone's pants in public, and they're not a kid, super old, or something like morbidly obese that would turn me on. Unfortunately I've only ever seen a diaper outline in public before (with confidence) are people in the old or morbidly obese category.

>>2548847
>diapers being treated as a taboo
Not particularly? The specific incident there I did get chastised for it and they were hidden better, so maybe that counts? But they generally weren't brought up at all, before (not that I can remember) or after. Nor did we really have them around often. Pretty much the only place I saw them post-potty training was the cabana of the grandparent's pool, or stashed away due to someone my mother was babysitting. But by the time I started acting ABDL, I knew they were taboo and hid them so I wouldn't get caught.

>How'd you broach that subject?
With honesty and clear communication. I just kinda sat her down and said I have something to talk about. I didn't overstress the issue to make it bigger than it really was, or treat it as some evil niche deal-breaker. Because it really isn't. It's a taboo kink/fetish oft-mocked online, sure, but once explained it's not too interesting. And it worked both times I've had to do it, and neither went running for the hills. Maybe I got lucky. I just did my best to explain it as I understood it to be, what I liked out of it, where I thought it came from, etc.

>pick a weird sex thing from the /b/ catalog for the loser to do
That is a way to do it. Definitely more evasive than you probably should've done it.

>Have you talked to her about it?
In the past, yes, but not in a while. I've been meaning to have another sit-down talk about my own evolving understanding of ABDL, and I'll likely bring up her wearing again to see if her tune changed. She absolutely does trust me (and for that I'm thankful) but getting her to wear has been a boundary I've respected.

I just can't figure out the wording to "sell" doing normal, everyday things, but diapered, to her. And I'd need to assuage some other fears surrounding diapers she has, mostly chaffing related. How do I make playing video games or baking together, diapered, better than just doing them without the diapers?

>>2548847
>Did you ever try getting older relatives to diaper you?
Nope. I told one of my parents once around age 8 but they didn't think anything of it.

I don't think your definitions are good ones so I'm glad I clarified.
I would have gone lifestyle years ago, for sure. Unfortunately I have to have a real job so I never get more than a weekend at a time.
I would call it a fetish because it's the biggest thing I'm into, but I get off to plenty of other stuff, this is just my favorite.
I would say it doesn't turn me on outside of a sexual setting though. I've done plenty of irl diaper stuff and it's just stressful. Constantly feeling like someone is gonna notice, kind of regretting using the diaper, just relieved to get home. So it's not like something that's going to turn me on no matter what.
So yeah, bad definitions there I think.

>>Partners have participated
>How did that go? Any good stories?
I don't think my experiences will be applicable to you

>>2548852
>I don't recall this having such a strong definition.
It's mostly something that people who like going to Pride parades did to differentiate between the two, is my guess
>it's not that I think it's some hard requirement
I would say it's still essentially a fetish. The definition I gave was one I found on google, but IMO a fetish is also any paraphilia that will turn you on or fire a few neurons whether you're fucking/fapping or not.
>>2548856
>neither went running for the hills
That IS lucky. Out of curiosity, are you and your partners outwardly "normal?" Like, on a scale of 1-10 with one being "irredeemable omega-level basement spastic" and 10 being "complete normie as far as anyone can tell," where do you and your partners sit?
>Definitely more evasive than you probably should've done it
For sure. I honestly probably could have gotten her to try it if I'd just asked, since I was her first and she was generally very trusting of me.

Good that you're respecting the boundary. Is it just the chaffing she has qualms about? Or are there other issues she has with wearing around the house? I think Little Kings have that paper-y backing instead of plastic, so using some baby powder would probably guarantee she's fine.

As far as the wording goes, if she trusts you as much as you say then tell her how intimate and close it would make you feel. Let her know how secretive and private ABDLs generally are, and how wearing with you would bring you much closer together. Doing everyday stuff in diapers with you would be deeply intimate and make you feel "safe." This is all assuming, of course, that you actually feel that way. That's how I feel about a girl wearing with/for me.

>>2548859
>I don't think my experiences will be applicable to you
I won't push you for a story then. Out of curiosity, why wouldn't they "apply?"

>>2548861
>why wouldn't they "apply?"
Unless you can make use of:
>find a guy
>call him daddy until he's into it
>be a brat
>tell him you want to piss yourself as a bratty thing to do
>get him to regress you as a "punishment"
>do this until it's no longer about being bratty or punishment and you can be honest about just being into diapers
Cos that's all there is to say really

>>2548862
>make use of
lol man I'm not actually a charity, I'm just a lonely diaperfag looking to talk about the subject.

But that's certainly an interesting story. Are you a girl or a guy then? I can see it being way easier getting a guy to try this than a girl, especially since dudes hold a disproportional percentage of weird kinks/fetishes

>>2548740
>which aspects of ABDL do you like (wearing, having your partner wear, usage, baby-related things, etc)?
I like diapers regardless of context. I do like ageplay and baby-related things. I'm a switch. I go back and forth between having really strong daddy-domme scenarios where I'm in charge of a diapered girl. It's less frequent but I also sometimes fantasize about being a baby myself and having a mommy take care of me. Also the fantasy of being a baby in diapers and having a cute girl in diapers to play around with is good too. I like a lot of different scenarios but it all revolves around diapers and ABDL.

>how long have you been into ABDL?
Literally my whole life.

>what do you think caused you to be into ABDL?
I disagree with the idea that people get into this because of some sort of childhood trauma. I'm sure that's true for some people but not for me and not for many ABDLs I've talked to. Psychologists say you can't trust the veracity of early childhood memories but literally my earliest memory is of me as a toddler walking around my parents kitchen and just... enjoying the sensation of wearing a diaper? I've always been into this. It took on a sexual component when I hit puberty. It's not a super well understood field but fetishistic attachments can happen with things that you're exposed to in early childhood. I guess I'm a victim of that.

>is it a lifestyle, fetish, or a kink for you?
Based on the definitions you've given I guess it's a fetish? I don't need it to cum but vanilla porn, and regular sex only get me off if I'm imagining something diaper-related or ABDL attached to it.

>are you incontinent?
No

>does your partner participate? is she/he incontinent?
No. They are not incontinent.
My partner participates. I'm actually really lucky that I was able to meet a girl who was into this fetish as well. I've had a handful of vanilla partners before this and I was always too scared to broach the subject with them. This is like a dream come true.

>>2548863
Yeah "make use of" in the sense that you're asking so it can inform your own experiences

>>2548866
>lucky that I was able to meet a girl who was into this fetish
I'll say. How did you two meet? Were you actively seeking a diaper girl, or was it just luck?

>>2548878
Luck is definitely most of it. I was sorta looking for a diaper girl? I had gone through a period of trying to talk to a few but none of those had ever materialized into anything. When I started talking to my GF I also didn't think anything was going to come of it. But we actually hit it off right away. It was like ~4-5 months of talking before we met in person. And then another 5 months after that before we agreed to actually be in a relationship. We're actually finally moving in together this September.

>>2548919
That sounds pretty cozy. Where did you meet her? Online, through friends?

>>2548860
>are you and your partners outwardly "normal?"
Outside of being somewhere slightly on the spectrum, I'm pretty normal; probably a 9? First girlfriend was a 10, current one is probably a 9, maybe 8.5 if I'm being harsh. She's about as, if not a little more, on-the-spectrum than I am. Most of it is invisible unless you get to know her or are actively looking.

>Is it just the chaffing she has qualms about?
Chaffing is the big one due to pacing a lot, but she's super paranoid about privacy. She's also raised the concern about long-term wear causing incontinence, and if I remember correctly urinary tract infections and/or skin rashes. I'm sure some of my own earlier anxiety surrounding wearing had some effect as well.

I have roommates and they're kinda omnipresent. University students be like that. While I've gotten confident wearing under my clothes around others, she most certainly hasn't. They're seldom both gone at the same time with enough leadtime for me to grab her to try anything. Annoyingly, this last week was one of those times.

>Little Kings
Never tried them; outside of ABU never having mediums in stock, they're $57 CAD per pack. If that's the price to get a diapergirl of my own, I'll bite. ABU tends to be above my price-per-diaper level, and I've never really tried cloth-backed so I don't think I have any in stock. But any cloth-backed and powder should work to alleviate chaffing.

>As far as the wording goes...
I think you've mostly hit the nail on the head there. That's pretty close to my own feelings, but I don't think I was able to properly convey that last time I talked with the GF about it. At least in part because I didn't understand it fully at the time. Something close to that might work and if I can find a day after that point where we're guaranteed to be alone...

I'll mull it over. You might've offered me a solution to a problem I feared unsolvable, Anon.

>>2548866
>Psychologists say you can't trust the veracity of early childhood memories but literally my earliest memory is of me as a toddler walking around my parents kitchen and just... enjoying the sensation of wearing a diaper?
I have something similar. Apparently I got out of diapers fairly late, and I have a memory from when I was probably 3 or so, where I hid in the kitchen to use it, and then ran into the living room, for my mum to catch and change me.
Super vague/hazy, and it's not something I really ever put much weight in.

>>2548928
>I have roommates and they're kinda omnipresent
good excuse to go to an AirBNB for a weekend. Or a nice hotel. Veg out, play some vidya together, and put up the "do not disturb" sign.
>You might've offered me a solution to a problem I feared unsolvable
If it works, have her sit her diapered ass on your face for me. At least one of us will get to enjoy it

>>2548572
stfu

>>2548457
spam old apple all you want. She's the GOAT

>>2548923
>That sounds pretty cozy. Where did you meet her? Online, through friends?
Wondering how specific I should be but...
We were mutuals on twitter for a couple years. One day she made a post on there about wanting to get into Discord more and find more people to talk to on there. So I asked if she'd add me on Discord, she did, and we ended up talking on there 1 on 1 for a while.
I didn't start off talking about ABDL stuff, although it got there pretty quickly. I just talked about normal hobbies and interests and asked about the sort of stuff she was into, but within like a week of doing that we were talking about diaper stuff. But in a very 'hands-off' kind of way. Like it was all theoretical.
Then it got more personal.

There were a few milestones after that. Like seeing what each other looked like, transitioning to calls, occasionally doing video chats if it felt appropriate. All leading up to us meeting in person for the first time.

>>2548964

>>2548971
Did your first meet up involve diapers? What was the progression of that like? I can only assume that you more or less immediately involved diapers irl if you'd been talking for that long. I'd only ever dreamed of meeting a girl who was into it like I am and it never happened. I did meet girls who had a parallel interest in it but never any that got off with them

>>2548856
>I just can't figure out the wording to "sell" doing normal, everyday things, but diapered, to her. And I'd need to assuage some other fears surrounding diapers she has, mostly chaffing related. How do I make playing video games or baking together, diapered, better than just doing them without the diapers?

As has been said if you two have trust and good communication in your relationship then you're already most of the way there. Just tell her that this is a fantasy for you and that it would mean a lot to you if she was willing to participate in this way. Reinforce that it would make her seem really sexy and cute in your eyes.

Take all of this with a grain of salt, do whatever you think is best for your situation. But I've thought a lot about how to get girls 'into' ABDL on their own terms. And here are some of my ideas:

What's her style like? Does she have any celebrities/influencers she follows? Try to find ABDL girls maybe that have a similar look or style and show her their content.

Pull up as many different varieties of diapers and ABDL clothes as you can and show her all the different options that are out there. If she likes clothes/fashion/design, she'll be really happy to see all the options that exist. Have her pick out some diapers to try based on what she thinks looks cute. This will make her feel more involved in the process, since she's selecting 'her' diapers. And she'll be getting stuff that she at least thinks is cute if nothing else. Maybe get a variety of samples from a place like wearingclouds.com if possible and if the selection isn't bad. Having a variety of stuff for her to try will make her feel better about finding an option that works for her.

>>2548856
>And I'd need to assuage some other fears surrounding diapers she has, mostly chaffing related.
You could always get a stick of body glide to help with chafing.

>>2548856
>>2548989
Continued...

Do the same thing with little's clothing if you can afford to buy her a few pieces without breaking the bank. She'll feel good that she's getting some cute clothes and she can pick out something that fits her style, but also it's clothing that is purposely being bought for being little so she'll feel at least somewhat encouraged to use it in that way. But just making her feel like she's involved in being a part of this and it's not something you're just putting on her will make her more accepting.

On a similar note, any interests or hobbies she's really into, maybe you can think of a way to approach her with integrating that and ABDL. For example, if she's an actress, maybe she can get comfortable with the idea of it being a really freeing acting exercise, where she has to operate without pretensions. If she's into certain designs, or crafts, maybe she can do that in an ABDL context. If she plays videogames, see if you can get her to just wear a diaper for a while she games. If she's into anime and manga, show her cute ABDL art that's done in that style.

If she has kinks of her own, maybe see if you can find a way to incorporate that with ABDL as well. If there's any lucky parallels there make sure to highlight that.

If she's worried about comfort, maybe start out with Pull-Ups, thinner medical diapers, and cloth-backed products and then see about working up to the more obvious ABDL stuff. Once she's gotten used to the more underwear like products, diapers won't seem like such a stretch.

Depending on where you live, taking her to an ABDL store and having her walk the shelves and pick things out for herself could be a good move too, but only if you live near one of the really nice, comfortable ones, like ABDLr in Denver. Best to try to avoid having her meet other ABDLs in a place like that. But an experience of shopping in a comfy store and having it feel welcoming and normal could be a really eye-opening experience for her.

>>2548989
>>2548991
Also, all of this is of course predicated on the idea that you two have good communication, and she's already agreed to explore this with you a bit.
And, of course, don't be weird about it. Don't push for too much too quickly. But I think these are things that could help her sort of naturally warm up to the idea of ABDL and feel like she's doing it on her own terms.

>>2548990
I've looked into body glide for myself but didn't buy it. Does it work well, especially for rubbing between the diaper and inner thigh?

>>2548989
>>2548991
>>2548992
Given my situation, and my GF, I think I can convince her. But she's extremely cheap. Like, her doesn't want us to go out for dinner because it costs money. Yes, she is a strange woman, and I might've been generous rating her as an 8.5 lol. So I would guess she'd look at the price tag first and object to it, and barely notice the designs. But if I can get her over the hump of wanting to try them, and the idea of costing me money, the "her diapers" idea will probably work.

Her style is probably best described as "comfy"; a mixture of tights/jeans/skirts/sweaters putting comfort over strict aesthetics. I have no idea what she'd like in terms of onesies or a cutesy skirt or something, but I suppose having a few digital storefronts available to browse wouldn't hurt. A (snap crotch) cat onesie would probably be perfect, but I haven't found one yet.

>If she has kinks of her own
Closest thing to a kink is bottoming in bed lol. I imagine I should be able to make diaper changes very enjoyable, though.

>interests or hobbies she's really into...
Some anime and gaming, dinosaurs, and lots of digital art. I'm kinda concerned she'd overanalyse any ABDL art I show her so I'd likely need to sort through my collection and find the best/cutest/least bad of them. Same with some cuter 3D girls doing normal things, but diapered. But the idea of showing her porn just seems extremely weird to me. But I do think gaming or movie/anime watching is prime diapering hours.

I think I just really like the idea of her diapered, desu.

>how to get girls 'into' ABDL on their own terms.
Have you done it yourself, or is it all theoretical/observational? Doesn't diminish the advice if it is, though.

>>2549073
>cat onesie would probably be perfect, but I haven't found one yet.
Not a snap crotch onesie but do you mean something like this? https://www.littleforbig.com/product/black-cat-luna-onesie-bodysuit/
Or just something with a cat pattern? Because stuff like that is out there.

>But the idea of showing her porn just seems extremely weird to me.
Honestly yeah that's difficult. I wish there was just more 'casual' ABDL girl content. But I was thinking more along the lines of showing her instagram/twitter/tumblr pages rather than explicit content.

>Have you done it yourself, or is it all theoretical/observational?
Sorta. Although a lot of it is just based on stuff I've observed in the community and women in general.
I had a girlfriend who was really 'woke' and, weirdly, her big reason for not wanting to do ABDL is because she thought of this fetish as a really submissive 'white girl thing' and all the girls she saw online doing it were white.
So, the reason I mentioned the 'style' and 'influencer' thing is because seeing Sunny is actually what convinced her to try the fetish out, oddly enough. Seeing a hot, cool, black girl, got her comfortable with trying it.

Also I dated an art teacher who was really into fashion and kinda looped ABDL into some of her interests there which is why I mentioned it.

I think all of the advice is solid though just based on my personal observations.

>>2548988
>Did your first meet up involve diapers? What was the progression of that like?
So, yeah our first meetup did involve diapers but it was a little weird because I didn't know what to expect and also I didn't want to push for a lot of diaper stuff too quickly for fear of intimidating her. In retrospect, we should have talked upfront about what our boundaries were.
But yeah our first meet up we got some food together and talked for a while but she was actually way more pumped to do diaper stuff then I was and we got into it. Nothing too extreme but I diapered her and played around with her a bit but I wasn't too 'dominant'. We also just made out for a while and fooled around a bit without going so far as actual sex.
We didn't meet in person again until about 4 months after that and then we actually had a lot of sex, did a lot of kink stuff, and at the end had a conversation about trying to take the whole thing seriously outside of just internet convos and meetups.

>>2549077
>something like this
Yeah, something like that. Maybe a little less Sailor Moon, but close enough. Apparently I should've given LfB a closer look.

>'casual' ABDL girl content
That'd be perfect. Nothing explicit, just a diaper poking out from under a shirt or skirt while cleaning, or covert peeks while out in public like picrelated, or taking them out into the wild like my last post. Simply existing in diapers outside of the porn studio, basically, and being happy they're padded.
But I guess by "porn" I mean images of women in diapers that I get off too, obviously explicit or not.

>...seeing Sunny is actually what convinced her to try the fetish out
I hadn't considered that. I suppose seeing someone else do it and enjoy doing it probably could help convince someone on the edge to dive in. Kind of a monkey-see monkey-do thing. But I assumed style meant clothing choices lol.

And I don't doubt that it's good stuff and that it'll work with a little finesse and tailor-made adjustments for my GF, I guess I'm concerned that I'd torpedo a good thing because I want it to be perfect and crinkly. We've been dating for over three years at this point and she's known since probably month three. I've asked for it in the past, far more bluntly and rushed than I probably should've, and got told no. So I don't want to risk pushing too hard for fear that I irreparably change something. I don't think it'll happen, but evidently I do enough that I'm hesitant to ask.

>>2548144
rent free lol

>>2549079
Cool, nice. Is it like a power dynamic kink mostly or was the diaper stuff mutual? Does she wet and mess? Did you just hang out in diapers together doing regular stuff or was it always confined to the bedroom? More details, I'm living vicariously

>>2549100
I need you to do something for me anon.
I need you to click the little triangle on your own post, and then click report. A little report window will pop up. Then I want you to click the little drop down menu for things you can report. Then you’re going to read the first item on that menu, close the window, come back to this thread and apologize for being a retarded little redditor.
Thanks.

>>2549073
>But she's extremely cheap. Like, her doesn't want us to go out for dinner because it costs money.
There is no such thing as a cheap woman. She may not want to spend money on particular things, but without fail there’s a hobby or interest of hers she will spend unlimited money on, what is it?

>>2549177
>There is no such thing as a cheap woman.
I know that "cheap woman" is kinda oxymoronic, but I've struggled to figure out what that thing is. It's not food, clothes, shoes, alcohol (luckily), or even chocolate as best I can tell. Travel and musical instruments, maybe? But likely only to a point.

She's never given me an idea of what to get for Christmas/her birthday. I'm not a whole lot better myself but she seems perfectly content with me shirtless and the $8 300g milk chocolate bar I can buy at the grocery store.

>>2549180
So you're dating a dude then? You should make that shit clearer in future.
Women have hobbies, nigga. It wouldn't be a secret, it wouldn't be something you'd have to guess at.
>cosplay
>pottery
>knitting
>stained glass
>makeup
Bitches love arts & crafts and shit that requires the skills of arts and crafts

>>2549186
Not a dude; just an autistic woman who doesn't want for much.

She draws. A lot. Physical, digital, and a bit of paint on canvas. I've asked time and time again whether she wants anything, supplies, sketchbooks, pencils, brushes, and the only thing she's asked for was a replacement stylus for her drawing tablet after her parent's dog bit it, and to "borrow" some of my pencils. Am I a bad man for taking her at face value that she doesn't need or want anything? Fuckin' maybe, idk.

>>2549188
>Not a dude; just an autistic woman
Whatever you want to call it, my man.

What a sickening reddit abomination of a thread

>>2549198
Diapers have been on this site longer than you've been alive.

>>2549200
I meant the retard with his "gf"

i bought a bunch of jff girls and can rip the best ones available

>>2549198
>meaningless buzz word
>no contribution to be spoken of

>>2549236
Which word do you think was a buzzword there?

>>2549228
>can rip the best ones available
But will you?

>>2549239
there is no "think," reddit is just a meaningless buzzword on this site. Unless you mean that discussing diaper shit in the diaper thread is reddit, which would be dumb AND a buzzword

Can we have another gif thread?

>>2549299
Ugh I wish. Problem is, /gif/ takes up a shit load of storage space on the 4chan servers. The simple solution would be to stop allowing the interracial porn spam. At any given time, there's easily 15-20 different interracial porn threads up, and they use increasingly stupid ways of referring to it to avoid people's custom filters. If the mods would just ban that shit completely, or force them to have only 1 thread, the storage problem would be solved instantly. Instead what they did was halve the number of active threads at a time. Unless you can consistently keep a /gif/ thread bumped every hour or two, it won't last a day.

TL;DR probably not worth bothering with.

>>2549244
>reddit is just a meaningless buzzword on this site
That's one hell of a take, redditor.
>Unless you mean that discussing diaper shit in the diaper thread is reddit,
Think it was pretty clear that you dancing around the fact your "gf" is a tranny was the reddit behavior.

>>2549149
>Cool, nice. Is it like a power dynamic kink mostly or was the diaper stuff mutual? Does she wet and mess? Did you just hang out in diapers together doing regular stuff or was it always confined to the bedroom?
We both just like diapers but for her it's more strongly geared towards the power dynamic and humiliation. She wants me to be 'Daddy' and she wants to be controlled and teased and humiliated about being a helpless little baby. We both do just like various diaper scenarios though. We're both into wetting and we're both theoretically into messing, but dealing with it in reality can be a little much.
It's still semi-rare that we've gotten to do diaper stuff together so we usually have to be kind of intentional about it when we do. Like here's what we're going to do tonight and how we're going to play around. We have just hung out in diapers a bit before though and I love that experience. Hopefully in the future there will be way more of that in our lives.

>>2549401
>anon can't tell the difference between individual anonymous posters in a 4chan thread
>anon is incriminatingly reliant on usernames to identify different posters
not even that anon, redditor. now prove my point by "defending your pride" with another pissy reply

>>2549240

>>2547784 (OP)
Hilarious that i used to think this fetish is disgusting until now I am seeing attractive women do it and I get the appeal

>>2549444
Where you born stupid or just repeatedly dropped as a kid?

>>2549495
I know no one wants to get doxxed but this is exactly why I've thought that we need to have images of ABDL girls spread far and wide on the internet.

All the fetishes that are considered 'gross' are ones where the general mental perception of them are fat, older guys indulging in them in secrecy.
That was the defining mental image people had or have had of ABDL for years. The one defining image for the fetish was the one of that fat guy in glasses sitting in his living room with a package of Pampers behind him.

All the 'hot' fetishes are ones where the mental imagery are the ones you associate with seeing hot women involved in some way. BDSM really won out by making that the dominant mental image of the fetish.

And there are a surprising number of women online who are into this fetish or at least post content related to it. The more people who see how cute and attractive this is will have their perceptions shift on it.
That's what tumblr was useful for, for a long time too.

>>2549512
>no response
good girl. keep it that way. now go get changed

>>2549593
It's why it bothers me when lolcow channels talk about old diaperfag lolcows.
Yeah we get it, Pamperchu is weird, we don't like him either.

As if there aren't gross lolcows in every community imaginable if you just go looking for them.

>>2549437
>>2549540
I miss when scotty did stuff for attention

What's the one pic that got you interested in this? Pic related for me.

If you are normal (aka not creepy) and broach things the correct way you can often get your partner into whatever fetish you want. All things considered diapers really aren't that weird. You start slowly with diapers (cute, comfy, etc) and then you can start incorporating more of the BDSM, humiliation, or wet/mess stuff. But you have to go slow. Pullups are basically underwear. Start there.

>>2549796
probably this one, but was already into it just one of the first pic i ever saved as a kid

>>2550077

>>2549796
my oldest saved diaper pic.
but I was into diapers since ever and actively using them for more than 10 years by that time.

>>2550077
>>2550120
Nice. Never wanted to wear them just into cute diaper girls. Would love a little to dote on.

>>2547784 (OP)
This fetish sucks...

>>2549796

>>2550122
Sick on a dummy

>>2550122
Suck on a dummy

>>2550121
i'm ok with wearing, but yeah it's not the best imo

i managed to get 3 girls to wear for me, even without dating them lol

>>2549796
I've literally always been interested in this. Even before I knew it was a thing other people liked. Didn't realize it was a common fetish until I first had unrestricted access to the internet in like ~2006.

First time seeing good ABDL porn though was probably ByteMine. Maybe this one.

>>2549703
Scunty must have pissed all over her sugar daddy to get a $1000 jellycat.

>>2550346
>conflicting images

>>2550365
Can barely tell there's a diaper there

>>2550341
Happy for her, I'd buy her the entire JellyCat range

do you know who she is ? I think it's the sexiest pic i've ever seen

>>2550847
Looks like it's probably a trap, to be honest.

Thread is up on /gif/ for those that are interested
>>>/gif/29132460

>>2550868
would.

>>2547784 (OP)
Fuck, what a cute face. Too bad it needs to be coated.

Any of these diaper girls make porn with penetration?

>>2551142
very few actually. Pic related has done at most one bj vid for instance and everything else is vibrator at most.

>>2551163
I prefer it without sex anyway

>>2551165
agreed. Just interesting she's been so successful and prolific but never gone that far really. She's basically made a career doing soft core porn

>>2551243
Why does she have to be so cute, bros?

>>2550868
I don't see the issue here. Anyone has a source ??

>>2551277
The issue is literally the first option for reports on this board. If you're into it you're into it, but I'm sus of it and it would be against the rules if true

>>2551267
Yeah.

Rip another /gif/ thread. I knew when I went to bed it was doomed. The annoying thing is, we have the numbers but we don’t have the time zone coverage

>>2551284
it's a girl you can clearly see the boobs anon don't be delusionnal

>>2551277
no idea sorry

>>2551403
>it's a girl you can clearly see the boobs
Yeah cos famously tits are the part of anatomy that determine sex, and there's no way to consume the hormone that grows tits in any other way than by having ovaries to produce it.

>>2551379
Why does /gif/ only have 6 pages in its catalog instead of 10 like other boards?

>>2551427
Cut down on bandwidth. Storing hundreds of 4mb webms costs a lot of data. Doesn't have an on-site archive either.

I've said a hundred times now, but if they just banned interracial porn spam or at least limited it to 1 thread, other threads wouldn't have to be bumped as frequently to avoid 404ing and data costs would go down.
But when you propose this to jannies they just start waxing philosophical about "what counts as spam"- as if 15-20 threads for every conceivable combination of interracial porn is in any way fucking normal, especially compared to the other porn boards on this very site.

>>2551405
not all women have ovaries

>>2551435
No women have or have had penises.

>>2551403
Sauce?

>>2551429
>what counts as spam
Having a all of these up at the same time, which does and has occurred:
>BMWF
>BMAF
>BLACKed and BLACKedraw
>BNWO
>BBC cucking
>cucking, bonus for BBC
They could literally just put it all in a BBC general because the majority of those are just the same fundamental idea. Only the last one has an excuse for having it's own thread because it's at least supposedly a cuck thread
However, it was revealed to me in a melatonin dream that there aren't a lot of jannies on porn boards

>>2551482
sure it wasn't a melanin dream

>>2551379

gdi, missed another one. Someone needs to post it here so allies can join to keep it alive!

>>2551862
Did >>2550948

>>2547793
Agp triggered. I wanna be the girl on the left.

>>2552029
Stop it. Get some help.

>>2547784 (OP)
https://youtu.be/HAGrKysDX5c

Anybody got any LittleMissPixels photos from a few years back? she was cute!