We had a mutual crush on each other in 6th grade but I was too shy and embarrassed to ask her out. She got tired of waiting and started dating my friend until they graduated. After they broke up she wanted to hook up with me but being a good friend, I turned her down. Then she stopped speaking to me, and so did my friend. They both got married last year and I wasn't invited to either wedding. I dream about her at least once a month.