>spent most my time in college in a long-term relationship then coof happened and everything went online, never met anyone
>started career
>lost touch with friends and never made new ones
>dance classes were a failure
>dating apps were an abysmal failure
>clubs are definitely not my type of place
>nearest bars are a 40 minute drive away and almost never have any single women

it hit me today that it's totally possible that I'll never meet anyone, that I may just be one of the many thousands of men who checked out of society, whether by choice or not, and just spend their time playing video games or whatever and being totally alone. there was never a guarantee of a woman for every man, and there is no cosmic balancing act. I may very well be doomed to die alone simply by circumstance of being born in this stratified era where the top 10% of men have harems and the rest get nothing. that's an extremely depressing thought. enough to make me genuinely consider roping at some distant point in the future, say if I make it to 35 and am still single (currently 28).

someone give me some hope, give me a new strategy, someone tell me that it's still possible to meet women nowadays without being a 6'7" finance chad.