please remember to reach back out to crazy tranners who are obsessed with you even if she is cringe. she really loves you and just wants things to work, but don’t only out of pity or worry she will hurt herself. even if she hopes she can hurt herself, or if you are gonna give her painful silent treatment like leaving her in the dark and such constantly on read or whatever she will spiral. wait a bit to readd but pls remember to. if you ever want to. i know in my circumstance i will always try to make it work. also dont see this and thinks she is worse than she already is. it isbad though at least im leaving you mostly alone and i think this is the first post ive made about it since we last talked but i’m crying again tonight nonas. my hurt is for something ik i want to get through the friction and figure out how things can work but yeah if your hurt is truly for nothing keep me away. it just hurts me idk or if you think im ugly or ugly on the inside which i am to both just like please be mean and make me no longer love you

I have an online friend that I'm pretty sure was abused by her narcissistic mother. She has completely bought into the idea that her mother was the victim and she was the only perpetrator. Somehow everyone they've spoken with says that her mother was a good loving and caring mother, but this seems very suspicious to me. I don't really want to go into the details, but if someone has dealt with something similar then I'd really appreciate some advice.
Posting this here because we're both trans women and I'm not really sure where else to ask...