The thing I will always find so ironic is that if you're a young tiwink or just an older slim built man who takes care of himself, there are so many chubs and bears that will be into you but if you're a muscle chasing slim guy, it'll be so hard to find.

I remember I had three bear type guys who would always try to get at me and they said that they weren't into muscular guys at all but 2 of these bears looked relatively conventionally attractive, the type that a muscular guy who likes bears would be into yet these particular guys are not into them. Meanwhile you have a muscle chaser slim guy who would totally want to be with the muscle guy who is into the bear. It's such an ironic paradox lol.