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6/18/2025, 8:57:19 PM
>>11313923
>I,'ve heard women talking about men and actors in such lascivious ways that can outperver guys.
Sure. But talk is cheap. Always look at what people do, not what they say.
If women wanted sex as much as men, they would act like men. But they don't act like men. So we know that they don't want it as much.
Looking at lesbians and gay men makes this really clear, because I think that gives us a window into people's "pure" sexual desires, unencumbered by things like pregnancy fears or general personality mismatches between men and women. Gay men have a FANTASTIC amount of sex. You literally cannot stop them from fucking each other. They have gay bathhouses, and orgies at private clubs, and grindr. Even at the height of the AIDS epidemic in the 80s, when sex had a high chance of literally killing them, they still could not stop themselves from going out and having unprotected orgies with strangers. This is because men, straight or gay, really want to have sex a lot.
Lesbians don't do this. There are no lesbian bathhouses, there is no lesbian grindr (at least not anything approaching the same level of scale). "Lesbian bed death" is a real thing, "gay man bed death" is an absurdity.
Picrel is a question about low libido posted by a woman, and there were other women in the comments agreeing with her and saying they were the same way. Now, I don't think this woman represents "average" female sexuality either. Her libido is probably on the lower end even by female standards. But she's still CLOSER to average female sexuality than the fantasy "women are the same as men, they just like dick instead of pussy" version.
>>11313956
It's complicated. All I was trying to get across is "women need to feel attracted to the guy, and attraction for women can be oddly specific and not necessarily tied to obvious physical characteristics".
>I,'ve heard women talking about men and actors in such lascivious ways that can outperver guys.
Sure. But talk is cheap. Always look at what people do, not what they say.
If women wanted sex as much as men, they would act like men. But they don't act like men. So we know that they don't want it as much.
Looking at lesbians and gay men makes this really clear, because I think that gives us a window into people's "pure" sexual desires, unencumbered by things like pregnancy fears or general personality mismatches between men and women. Gay men have a FANTASTIC amount of sex. You literally cannot stop them from fucking each other. They have gay bathhouses, and orgies at private clubs, and grindr. Even at the height of the AIDS epidemic in the 80s, when sex had a high chance of literally killing them, they still could not stop themselves from going out and having unprotected orgies with strangers. This is because men, straight or gay, really want to have sex a lot.
Lesbians don't do this. There are no lesbian bathhouses, there is no lesbian grindr (at least not anything approaching the same level of scale). "Lesbian bed death" is a real thing, "gay man bed death" is an absurdity.
Picrel is a question about low libido posted by a woman, and there were other women in the comments agreeing with her and saying they were the same way. Now, I don't think this woman represents "average" female sexuality either. Her libido is probably on the lower end even by female standards. But she's still CLOSER to average female sexuality than the fantasy "women are the same as men, they just like dick instead of pussy" version.
>>11313956
It's complicated. All I was trying to get across is "women need to feel attracted to the guy, and attraction for women can be oddly specific and not necessarily tied to obvious physical characteristics".
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