>>81899605
They are not big, they just sit way too high and cover your eyebrows. I usually wear contacts, but when I do wear glasses they are not supposed to hide your eyebrows. It looks weird.
>I just see guys with messy hair and girls like them.
Yeah because those guys have very good features so they can pull off any hairstyle. Its like how models can look good with short hair but most average women cant. And your hair isnt just "messy", its ugly and completely out of shape.