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7/22/2025, 7:34:26 PM
>>33393272
Mate, I don't know if that guy is you or you look like him, but you're not, "unattractive". You look fine, and I bet if you aren't demoralized you act fine too.
Self worth from dating apps is a trap. They're a backward approach to dating. Male attraction is immediate - 90% visual, 10% personality. Women are the opposite, so using dating apps forces this unnatural behavior into women's brains.
Imagine a girl sitting alone at a bar, she holds your gaze, you sit down nearby, she says, "hi". You move a seat closer. You launch into reading her your dating profile, your income, your BMI, height, weight, a shirtless pic. You can't demonstrate what would make you attractive to her, your personality, wit, and the way you could make her feel when she's with you. You've only offered reasons for rejection.
Compare that with meeting someone through community, any community, but let's say a church Summer potluck. There's a biddy who sits next to you at service, her name is Nancy, she asks you how your week was every week, you exchange platitudes. Suddenly there's a cute girl in a sun dress with her, you approach, "Hi Nancy, you look radiant today. How was your week?" She lights up, exchanges platitudes, mentions her single daughter with the grace of the Kool Aide man. The daughter flinches at that, observing your interaction. You offer your hand, "it's a pleasure to meet you," complement her dress. The conversation is fluid, candid, there's no pressure, you can't fuck this up so you make candid observations, you say Nancy should tell all the pretty girls you're single too, her daughter smiles at that.
Who is easier to ask out on a serious date? My brother in Christ, I think what you're missing is community. People who remember your name and care about you.
Mate, I don't know if that guy is you or you look like him, but you're not, "unattractive". You look fine, and I bet if you aren't demoralized you act fine too.
Self worth from dating apps is a trap. They're a backward approach to dating. Male attraction is immediate - 90% visual, 10% personality. Women are the opposite, so using dating apps forces this unnatural behavior into women's brains.
Imagine a girl sitting alone at a bar, she holds your gaze, you sit down nearby, she says, "hi". You move a seat closer. You launch into reading her your dating profile, your income, your BMI, height, weight, a shirtless pic. You can't demonstrate what would make you attractive to her, your personality, wit, and the way you could make her feel when she's with you. You've only offered reasons for rejection.
Compare that with meeting someone through community, any community, but let's say a church Summer potluck. There's a biddy who sits next to you at service, her name is Nancy, she asks you how your week was every week, you exchange platitudes. Suddenly there's a cute girl in a sun dress with her, you approach, "Hi Nancy, you look radiant today. How was your week?" She lights up, exchanges platitudes, mentions her single daughter with the grace of the Kool Aide man. The daughter flinches at that, observing your interaction. You offer your hand, "it's a pleasure to meet you," complement her dress. The conversation is fluid, candid, there's no pressure, you can't fuck this up so you make candid observations, you say Nancy should tell all the pretty girls you're single too, her daughter smiles at that.
Who is easier to ask out on a serious date? My brother in Christ, I think what you're missing is community. People who remember your name and care about you.
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6/15/2025, 10:30:04 AM
>>211485472
We are like the circles in the wood ,as in we grow that way ,its a foundation. You know?
We are like the circles in the wood ,as in we grow that way ,its a foundation. You know?
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