>>81911251
hi anon!

>Is this going too far?
depends a lot on your current relationship with him, i'd say. if you're otherwise on good terms, you might want to think about it a bit more. you could call it a parenting mistake and try to move on, but it is a big betrayal of your trust and his responsibilities as a father, so if you'd want nothing to do with him anymore, that'd be completely understandable and, i think, justified.

>is this the wrong place to ask?
no, it's fine. you can always welcome to talk to us if you want.

>It's just so many years of suffering that could have been avoided if he had remotely carted
sorry you had to go through that. are you getting treatment now?