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if your desires never leave your head and noone ever knows about them and they are never recorded down in any way then they are basically not real and it doesn't count. Sexuality is a spook, thoughtcrime doesn't exist and only your actual actions in the real world really mean anything.
>Are perma virgins who've never even touched a woman heterosexual if they've never acted on it?
They are functionally not heterosexual. If you are a perma virgin until you die having never acted on it you are interchangeable with someone who was asexual. Personal 'Identity' 'I was born that way/I think it so therefore it is' isn't real. The thoughts inside your head and your own impression of yourself don't mean anything. You are not a 'good person' just because you 'know' you are a good person in your head but never do proactive morally good actions in the real world. If you are a introverted nobody who goes through life never achieving anything but 'knowing' in your head that 'I'm actually a pretty cool guy' you were not actually a pretty cool guy, you were just some nobody.