ok going with Georgia now.

ok boys, make a 9 year old hire wet nurse + tutor.
Attack the crime-jews day1, sell their captives and defend the territory against northcaucasus alanic nomads.

important that you Before the Age of 10 swear fealty to the Byzantines to try the new administrative government out.
BEFORE the Age of 10. so you can play via "Meet Peers" with the bizzys kiddos 2x times.

you can´t do it, when you are an independent ruler because there are no kids to play with:(