>go out with girl
>we're sitting in her car talking after leaving restaurant
>she says she's afraid to date me because I give her fuckboy vibes

meanwhile I'm literally talking to zero people besides her and I haven't had sex in almost 3 years.
how the fuck am I giving off a fuckboy vibe? she's not even the first person to tell me that and I wasn't seeing anyone then either.
like I admit I'm extroverted and a flirt by habit but how does that translate to fuckboy?