>Failure is not the only punishment for laziness; there is also the success of others.

What do you do when it feels like you're behind in life? I'm 26, making just over 30k/yr as a personal assistant. The people I knew in college are all NYC/DC/LA lawyers pulling down 200k minimum, or living in some exotic location speaking some weird language, or progressing in their career, or or or. Feels like I'm stuck. And to be quite honest I like it where I am; low stress, no real responsibilities, safe, comfortable, but to be even more honest, I want the people I knew in college to begrudgingly admire and respect me, even though I haven't talked to most of them in years. I want to both disappear and also be talked about, discussed, present. What do I do? Anyone else felt this way? What did you do?