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>I’m not sure you’ve made the difference clear
-Lifestyle: It's part of your life, and you live it most days. Like DDLG girls who don't seek boyfriends; they seek DADDIES or cuck couples where the cuck is actually in chastity 24/7. A lifestyle may not even be sexual for you (littlespace, people who train themselves to be incontinent)
-Fetish: You NEED this thing to get off. For some people it's choking, feet, handcuffs. For a diaper fetishist, involvement of diapers is considered essential for sexual gratification, even if you can cum without it.
-Kink: It's a fun little thing you do to get off. Maybe you just look at diaper porn, maybe you wear once in a while for fun.
Some definitions also suggest that a fetish is something that turns you on regardless of context, whereas a kink only turns you on during sex.
>Partners have participated
How did that go? Any good stories? How did you broach the subject?

Also, thanks everyone for actually talking about this. Trying to actually talk about ABDL on /aco/ just devolves into arguments about trannies