>>40386613
>is it a bad idea to find a sex worker if i'm extremely insecure about being a virgin?

Yes, sex work is a terrible terrible fucking meme. its a non-solution to whats kept you a khhv loser your entire life. Sorry to hit you with the cold water here but virginity isn't -that- big of a deal but it is a spiritual thing more than it is physical, otherwise you wouldn't feel so left out on it. When your friends talk about sex, what are you going to tell them? ''oh I uhhh, paid someone $300 to fuck me haha'', or will you lie and dig a hole making up a bf/gf / fwb scenario that nobody knows and nobody will come to believe exists. If you're going to lie about it whats even the point of paying for it? I've had cis male friends drop that bomb on me several times, its depressing how normalized that mindset is. You would get more respect finding a guy / girl at the bar to pity fuck you one night, at least you earned it being going outside and actually being social.

People who pay to ''lose'' their virginity are still mentally virgins who will never fix whats wrong with them to get real ass. They will never be able to reciprocate an actual intimate moment. All they know how to do is punch in and punch out, its a hollow transactional experience you will learn nothing from anon. No moid that paid for sex has ever known what to do with his hands to pleasure a woman in a real scenario. Keep working on yourself anon, the pussy will come sooner.