>>3973325
>>3973327
I mean, it's Hetalia, this fandom attracts people who want to see dudes get objectified sexual style. Femdom is kinda the convenient logical progression of these incentives for girls who aren't into traditional romance stuff and just wanna see boys be sexy but also wanna acknowledge that girls exist.
It's always funny seeing yaoi-brained artists be like, oh yeah, this girl exists, let me make you super awesome and powerful to make up some feminism points for forgetting that you exist most of the time

>>3973482
Occasionally.

The usual femdom thing of strong, physically-intimidating women dominating guys, that's more ... aspirational for me, not really sexual. Very much a "get it, girl" kinda thing that's at most satisfying for smug whiny guys. Like, say, England.
What really appeals to me is smaller delicate girls psychologically destroying beautiful ikemen. I think Azula taunting Sokka about Suki in that Day of the Black Sun episode did things to my child brain.
And if we're talking fanon, it really depends on the characters. The dick usually goes soft for OOC, so if it's a soft girl character doing the dominating, then you really need to make it make sense