>>40352026
>If it feels like you're struggling to get the conversation started or if it feels like you're not getting treated right within the initial interaction, it's probably not gonna get better if you give them more chances, just move on till you find someone who acts right without you having to pry it out of them

This is really good advice, I'm going to take it to heart, I shouldn't have to force conversation, or draw out what I want from him, he should have the ability to hold a conversation. Even if he just went out info dumped about his job or interests I'd take that over this lazy, horrible approach "let me fuck you, uhhhhh" lmao its atrocious

I'm in my loving me phase now, because I can end up alone and happy, or alone, used and bitter. If I'm happy im more likely to find someone if I'm bitter it won't happen

:)