How do I find more headstrong women? I'm pretty conventionally attractive and because of that women tend to be deferential to me. It makes conversations boring and less fun. I even push boundaries and say something out of line to try and get a reaction but even that will get nothing. The only women who really catch my interest are ones that are willing to offer some sort of back and forth. Even if it's like they don't like me a little. It's still much better to go back and forth with someone opinionated than be with someone who tried to be agreeable at all times.