I never understood the trope of parents telling their kids
>DON'T SNEAK OUT!
>DON'T GO TO PARTIES!
>DON'T DRINK!
>DON'T HAVE SEX!

as someone that didn't do any of that stuff because I wanted to be a well behaved kid and didn't want my parents to worry, I ended up a depressed miserable virgin in my mid 20s. If I ever have a son, I'm going to force him to go out and do normal teenage stuff