4 is the only one not insufferable and the only one i could see myself spending the rest of my life with without killing myself.
I mean seriously imagine dating a spoiled brat to that extent or some annoying flavor of e girl. 4 is the only one where dating sounds fun and fulfilling.
Also if you would choose any other woman because of your own transphobia then you deserve being with one of those other women. Enjoy being called senpai or having your gf defend Jordan Peterson on dates and having that be part of the "pros" list.