>>81932759
>That's admirable, anon. I feel like people like you are really rare.
We used to not be.
>Didn't it destroy you a little bit inside to see how the ED changed her?
Yes and the worse part is there is nothing you can do. It's similar to dealing with people who have addiction problems, except people with addiction issues don't have professionals telling you to just bend over and do what they want.
>What did your sister do if you don't mind me asking?
too much to cover here. Basically never grew out of acting like a highschooler but thought she was soooo fucking smart and wonderful and everything she did was manipulation or leveraging access to grandchildren to get what she wanted. No concern for anyone but herself. Looking back on some things I thought were cool in the correct lens make me realize how horrible she was.
I don't care about her anymore. She's dead.
>Do you think women have really changed that much?
YES! They can't hold a conversation, don't have hobbies and are unpleasant to be around now.
The only perk now is they put out easier, and frankly that is a gamble that can go badly sometimes. It's like winning a jackpot only to get audited by the IRS.
>You're right but I do think men are just as guilty of it as women sometimes.
It's a growing up with social media problem. We removed cyber bullying. Sure, protect people from getting their dox, IP, and SSN thrown in random comment sections, but when you can't call people out nobody thinks their wrong.
When you have a "the victim shouldn't have to do anything" mentality, victims never stand up for themselves.
Removing cyberbullying caused an socialogical ecosystem collapse.
>It's something I also need to work on
Start viewing yourself in the other persons shoes. The problem now is no one even tries to consider other perspectives. No view from other perspectives = no self awareness and total self centeredness.

Also try considering the thought "am I in the wrong" or "can I prevent this"