Where do I find cute guitar tomboys?

Fucked up a date with one that looked like pic related a year ago and still kicking myself over it a bit. Havent found one since. Yea I know I should prioritize values and compatibility over hobbies but music is super important to me and I want to see what its like dating another passionate musician. I mainly play metal and go to metal shows, so should i try going to more midwest emo kinda shows?