there a term for fetishizing "almost passing"? where at first glance youll think its a girl, but any scrutiny and the facade falls apart? original hair poking out under the wig, being woefully unaware of basically accidently flashing everyone not being used to a skirt, totally failing at using high heels, almost perfect but flawed makeup, yadda yadda.

dunno why but its mad boner fuel for me. one of my cousins has done the whole transitioning thing and they brought a friend over and they had a nice, tight short dress on and at first just looked like a sorta nerdy awkward girl trying to look pretty but after a few seconds it was "oh, your basically a duplicate of my cousin".