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6/17/2025, 1:17:56 AM
>>81515268
>maybe i do want it, but seeing how incompatible it is with the life i want to live it hurts
Let's be honest here for a minute.
The life you really want, like actually want from the honest half of your heart, is a life with the man you love.
The life you say you want (wife and family) is not really your want. It is the want of society, your family, your religion and the world around you, pushing you towards cis heteronormativity, threatening you with every curse imaginable if you dare disobey.
This is a conflict between your two opposing desires: pleasing yourself, or pleasing your family. Doing what you want, or wanting what others do. Being happy with yourself, or fitting in the happiness of others.
>maybe i do want it, but seeing how incompatible it is with the life i want to live it hurts
Let's be honest here for a minute.
The life you really want, like actually want from the honest half of your heart, is a life with the man you love.
The life you say you want (wife and family) is not really your want. It is the want of society, your family, your religion and the world around you, pushing you towards cis heteronormativity, threatening you with every curse imaginable if you dare disobey.
This is a conflict between your two opposing desires: pleasing yourself, or pleasing your family. Doing what you want, or wanting what others do. Being happy with yourself, or fitting in the happiness of others.
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