You're making the same mistakes that normies do that prevents them from grasping the situation. There are millions of men and women around us, of course you will see tons of average dudes with wives and gfs. You have to zoom out to see the problem, which is that because of the inherent imbalance of male/female sexual market value and hypergamy, this means a lot of men will be left out of dating, and those men are more likely to be less attractive.

Still, things are worse than they seem because incels are just the tip of the iceberg. What about men who aren't virgins but still struggle to get consistent sex and girlfriends? Those who had to settle for fat women, single moms and bpdemons? Things are much more bleak when you consider the overwhelming power women hold over the masses of men in the dating market.

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Same. Fucking dudes would be easy but I want a gf.