>>33362784
>Damn following "the redpill" just had me tunneling to work/school, tunneling to the gym and back home and buying i bunch of badly fitting menswear I didn't even like. While continuing to avoid women
Exactly its a total trap. I am coming around to the idea that as long as a man has his core tenants (a thing to make money, not gooning, and working out, as well as a personal dream/goal) than he doesnt need the red pill monk mode. Young men are wasting prime years, you should ALWAYS be fielding prospective friends and lovers. Breathe easier that way
>wait for the girls to come to you
HAHAHA they dont the girls who approach - well. What type of girl approaches? Around here, it's one who has older brothers and plenty of experience dating so she is either a horny slut (which I am learning I am suppose to fuck ok fine I will now) or a perfect catch. Perfect Catches dont exist. Theres always a catch with a gal and a guy, I have baggage; she's opened her legs with regret and needs me to fill a void I cant