>>24530895
I mean it depends from person to person. A guy could "get raped" by an extremely hot chick and still internalize it as "rape" if 1) He didn't actually enjoy it and/or 2) He tells others and they keep insisting that he's a victim and he then internalizes the idea. Your friend was lucky, really lucky that he both wanted to do it and that there was no genuine coercion at play other hand other than the "implication" of "hot teacher cheats on her husband to fuck middle school (or highschool idk) boy

I enjoy reading fiction related to boylove (and boys in general, not just romantic or sexual) because they're pretty idealized. Very idealized. Based in reality? Yes, very much so. Manipulated so only the best of what reality could potentially offer and the worst of what reality could potentially choke you with? Also certainly correct. I mean, I was once that very young boy chasing after older guys who most certainly knew it was "wrong" to court me. My experiences were hardly as magical as what Thomas Mann or Andre Gide or E. E Bradford write it out to be. Yes, some were fun, some felt good. But some also sucked. Really sucked. And I hate that it sucked . And I hate the guys who made it suck. Engulfing myself in the romanticized literature involving this form of love allows me to rewrite a past that would have strongly longed for the impossible written between these pages.

You shouldn't feel like having sex with your teacher would have saved you, anon. It wouldn't have. I fucked my extremely attractive (male) private math tutor as a young boy, I still ended up extremely suicidal lol