Just read a post on plebbit about a tranner cutting ties with a repper online friend because he doomed too much (constantly self-loathing, lashing out on trannies, occasionally sending suicide threats, that kind of stuff).
I see why someone would cut ties with someone like this (you don't need to be anyone's therapist), but it still hurts to see the comments be like "you don't need to put up with that", "toxic relationships aren't worth it" or "you did the right thing cutting him off", while that's true, it just reminds me of how much of a piece of shit I am for doing something extremely similar a while back. He's doing that because he has nowhere to vent his frustrations, so when someone listened to him for the first time, he started clinging onto that as hard as he could.
I fucking hate one of the replies. It tries to frame this as a good thing for both of them and argues that cutting him off will cut this weird dynamic. Here's the piece of it I fucking hate
>better to leave them to find scenarios and people where they have a better dynamic.
There is no better dynamic for him. I did the same shit and the only thing that changed when I got cut off is that instead of venting to a single person, I vent in an imageboard now. Nothing changed for me. YOU suffer less. There's nothing wrong with putting your own mental health first, but I hate this pretending like this is for the betterment of both parties equally. At least admit you don't want to deal with his shit, don't dart around the topic like that.
These people call themselves troubled and mentally ill, but they all run away the second someone actually fucked up shows up. what do i know tho. i cant be bothered to make an account there so ill just post here instead
i dont even know what my argument is about, i guess dont cut people off like this? either don't interact at all or stay by their side, bailing on them is worse than staying silent.
the day just started and I already ruined it fml