Some people just will constantly foolishly bring their own life to a hell through sheer stupidity and force others along the hellish descent into more suffering. This foolish stupidness and lack of ability to take life seriously not only affects the person in question, but the people they drag down with along side them.
The spectacle then lead to these people dragged down with them into become naturally agressive towards said person. People from outside don't get why those other people are "needlessly" angry at said person, but it's completely rational.
These foolish people who other people haven't spent enough time to know the extent of their foolishness play off the unlucky victim when it was always THEM NEVER taking life seriously and now it is severely hurting not just them, but others.