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7/8/2025, 7:14:52 PM
>>509844657
> A man is supposed to face his emotions and tame them, not hide from them. A man dictated by his emotions, including love, is easy to control.
Exactly, Jung called it the anima, and it lives inside of you. Most men never realise they have it, those who do are either possessed or destroyed by it.
And for as long as they continue walking the world projecting the anima onto external people they will never learn to control emotions
> A man is supposed to face his emotions and tame them, not hide from them. A man dictated by his emotions, including love, is easy to control.
Exactly, Jung called it the anima, and it lives inside of you. Most men never realise they have it, those who do are either possessed or destroyed by it.
And for as long as they continue walking the world projecting the anima onto external people they will never learn to control emotions
6/30/2025, 1:44:59 AM
it's really not that difficult to understand that all people (men or women) develop attachment difficulties if they do not practice attachment in a healthy way.
This concerns both extremes: those who switch partners too often, and those who spend half of their life without partners. In both cases it's a pathology which makes bonding awkward and unstable.
Healthy relationships aren't free - they require a lot of self-work and self-discovery for both partners. Most people can't sustain a relationship because they are too blind to their own personal vulnerabilities and imperfections. And while a roastie is a psychopath by definition, a shut-in loner is psychologically too under-developed to learn to love himself, let alone to love another person in a non-destructive way.
This concerns both extremes: those who switch partners too often, and those who spend half of their life without partners. In both cases it's a pathology which makes bonding awkward and unstable.
Healthy relationships aren't free - they require a lot of self-work and self-discovery for both partners. Most people can't sustain a relationship because they are too blind to their own personal vulnerabilities and imperfections. And while a roastie is a psychopath by definition, a shut-in loner is psychologically too under-developed to learn to love himself, let alone to love another person in a non-destructive way.
6/24/2025, 3:44:42 AM
>>508530428
Empowering women’s choice to absurd levels results in tall morons and the collapse of society. Men who want to empower women do so out of an unconscious desire for escapism from the duties of being male which include overriding women’s choice in many cases.
Empowering women’s choice to absurd levels results in tall morons and the collapse of society. Men who want to empower women do so out of an unconscious desire for escapism from the duties of being male which include overriding women’s choice in many cases.
6/23/2025, 11:27:47 AM
>>105678432
You're projecting your inadequacies to understand the information you were presented with. That is the shadow. The undesirable, uneasy, nasty parts of you. The inadequacy, the vitriol, the anger and the resentment. It's easy to externalize those parts of you onto others or the world, after all it was me who made you feel this way, right?
Shadow work is hard, you need to face those parts of you and realize that you can integrate them into your ego, to realize that those parts of you have a purpose, place and time. That they aren't shameful or "bad", but that they should be able to serve you. You are not an animal pushed and pulled by impulses and emotions but a master of your mind and your actions, and when you realize that you become unstoppable in whatever goal you set for yourself.
Shadow work is also needed, for whole of society to function in ever changing world every single person needs to "face their demons" otherwise the society as a whole begins to crumble as we isolate ourselves in our dysfunction. Integrating our shadow makes us functional part of society. This is why shadow work is integral. This is what social media is doing by mirroring the deepest ugliest parts of you. This is why it irks you so deeply when social media mirrors you back.
This is also why you had a need to insult me or Carl Jung to call us pseuds. You felt personal direct connection with this information, an intellectual standoff where "someone is above" and "someone is below" intellectually, and they're faking their prowess.
Now tell me, did your father demean your curiosity and intellectual pursuits? Did you achieve his goals of intellectual pursuits like finishing college where he might have failed it?
You're projecting your inadequacies to understand the information you were presented with. That is the shadow. The undesirable, uneasy, nasty parts of you. The inadequacy, the vitriol, the anger and the resentment. It's easy to externalize those parts of you onto others or the world, after all it was me who made you feel this way, right?
Shadow work is hard, you need to face those parts of you and realize that you can integrate them into your ego, to realize that those parts of you have a purpose, place and time. That they aren't shameful or "bad", but that they should be able to serve you. You are not an animal pushed and pulled by impulses and emotions but a master of your mind and your actions, and when you realize that you become unstoppable in whatever goal you set for yourself.
Shadow work is also needed, for whole of society to function in ever changing world every single person needs to "face their demons" otherwise the society as a whole begins to crumble as we isolate ourselves in our dysfunction. Integrating our shadow makes us functional part of society. This is why shadow work is integral. This is what social media is doing by mirroring the deepest ugliest parts of you. This is why it irks you so deeply when social media mirrors you back.
This is also why you had a need to insult me or Carl Jung to call us pseuds. You felt personal direct connection with this information, an intellectual standoff where "someone is above" and "someone is below" intellectually, and they're faking their prowess.
Now tell me, did your father demean your curiosity and intellectual pursuits? Did you achieve his goals of intellectual pursuits like finishing college where he might have failed it?
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