What >>60487140 says is right. You just get a little bidet-like sprayer that hooks into the supply line for your toilet, and use it to carefully hose of the poop into the bowl. Easy install.

Few more things OP. For those first 3 months give him plenty of skin to skin contact. Mostly this will be with mom, but you can too. Just holding your baby shirtless or letting him fall asleep on you works. Babies' autonomous nervous systems don't know how to work yet, and they will take cues from your body. Its why sometimes very little babies start crying and cannot stop until they run out of steam and fall asleep. They don't know how. Being up against you teaches their body what a relaxed heart rate and breathing rate is.

I would seriously recommend thinking about doing a planned home birth. You stay outside of a lot of the worst the American medical system can do to your wife and child that way. If you can't, or won't, then you need to understand what rights your wife and child have as patients and that you have as their advocate.

>You will be pushed towards chemically inducing labor if "it's taking too long" (read: it's inconvenient for the staff). Refuse. Induced kids have a higher rate for attachment disorders.

>Your wife will almost certainly be pushed to take IV antibiotics "just in case we have to rush to surgery". Refuse. Nuking gut flora and causing a die off right before she's going to start breastfeeding, sounds like a great idea!

>Early in consultations they will try to get you to do a C-section. Unless your wife has placenta previa, or another condition that legitimately makes vaginal birth too risky to try, refuse. Each C-section makes the next pregnancy more likely to fail (scars on the uterus). And after the first one a hospital will basically refuse to let her have a natural birth.

>If its a boy they will try to circumcise, sometimes after you have refused. Watch them like a hawk.

>Refuse the Hep B vax. It's beyond worthless.