>>40519012
Used this spread.

>Strength
>The emperor reversed
>The moon
>The empress
>Six of cups

I think you just need to have the emotional strength to stick to your guns and give both of you the love that you're lacking internally. He's guarded due to self esteem issues, he's a great guy but can't exactly see it for himself. You, on the other hand? Being able to nurture both him and you into being more emotionally available will be beneficial, as having more knowledge on the inner workings of you both that you currently don't know about will bring you much internal peace.

If you just stand strong and keep being kind, loving and nurturing, even when it's tough, you'll begin to break down his walls, as deep down, he just wants to be loved and told that it's okay for him to exist as he is. Seems like he has some real mommy issues.

Ultimately though, the spread seems to be telling you to remember that you're a person with an unhealed inner child too, and you can't spread yourself too thin for another person. He's not as willing to give in this relationship off the bat as you are, and while the advice is to just keep pushing, don't do it to a desperate point, lest you break yourself.