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6/27/2025, 2:14:42 PM
>>76309731
>I'm just doomed to be a bitter asshole who hates everything and is always seconds away from snapping.
Anon, most actual bitter assholes wouldn't have the introspection to realize that.
You're making changes in your life, it'd be stranger if you didn't have issues adjusting to the new normal - arguably your introspection is already a big form of growth, as your previous state as you described it (and I'm projecting a bit here) sounds like you were mostly on autopilot, little more than a zombie. A content zombie maybe, but a zombie nonetheless.
The good thing is if you've awoken now you have a cockpit full of levers and buttons to control and direct your future. You don't know what each button does yet, and you'll press some wrong ones along the way, but that's fine. You might even have to find some new interests to satisfy yourself.
It's a bit like drug addicts getting sober and realizing they don't like their friends as much anymore because all they actually used to do during the "good times" was get high together.
You're in control now, and that's scary sometimes. That's okay. But you decide where you want to go and who you want to become, there's no such thing as a fate thrust upon you. Listen to >>76309772 and choose the right thing.
>I'm just doomed to be a bitter asshole who hates everything and is always seconds away from snapping.
Anon, most actual bitter assholes wouldn't have the introspection to realize that.
You're making changes in your life, it'd be stranger if you didn't have issues adjusting to the new normal - arguably your introspection is already a big form of growth, as your previous state as you described it (and I'm projecting a bit here) sounds like you were mostly on autopilot, little more than a zombie. A content zombie maybe, but a zombie nonetheless.
The good thing is if you've awoken now you have a cockpit full of levers and buttons to control and direct your future. You don't know what each button does yet, and you'll press some wrong ones along the way, but that's fine. You might even have to find some new interests to satisfy yourself.
It's a bit like drug addicts getting sober and realizing they don't like their friends as much anymore because all they actually used to do during the "good times" was get high together.
You're in control now, and that's scary sometimes. That's okay. But you decide where you want to go and who you want to become, there's no such thing as a fate thrust upon you. Listen to >>76309772 and choose the right thing.
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