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It probably works retard. When you change your attitude and approach to things you get different results.
>i should be more like the alpha males that never talk about their feelings and hold everything in until they eventually kill themselves when they cant take it anymore, because THATS how you impress people
No
>by being so scared of their judgment that you dont allow yourself to be seen vulnerable
Not at all. Just don't be self centered, ungrateful crybaby unable to take any advice like you are being here.
>and yet so far the only thing you've told me is to change and act like someone who i am not
I told you to be comfortable with who you are and accept it. Work on things you can change if you want, it doesn't mean you shouldn't improve. If you actually did that you wouldn't need validation from others to feel valuable.
>great advice!
You would know about good advice. Your advice is so profound usually you pathetic, attention starved goober.
>because i know that they'll be genuine considering they still chose to be with me despite me being "a whiny bitch"
That's true Actually.