>>33355789
>My point is that it's bad for you to condition yourself to view sex as just hooking up.
Okay, I'm starting to get it, how am I supposed to value sex, an act with emotional depth and intimacy, when that same act can be done with a stranger (for the sake of the argument). Doing hookups reduces the impact that sex, is supposed to have?
>no one wants to work on a real relationship because they can just numb themselves with sex from someone else
And because hookups, people can just get sex, without the effort of a real relationship. And the consequence to that action, is removal of the importance of sex, the emotional depth and intimacy of that act. (small problem is what if someone doesn't care about sex, is there something wrong with them?)
>You're only quoting what I wrote with the first two quotes.
Yeah, I agree mostly with what you said in the post, I try to comment for clarification.

I'm starting to get it now, what should I do instead to fill the void of loneliness?