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7/5/2025, 6:59:10 PM
>>33319916
I think it mostly started to show after we moved in together. Scrolling back through lengthly texts she sometimes sends me post-arguments (>>33319857), the earlier ones I can find come just after we moved in.
Yes, she's Asian (suprised you were able to guess). She's a little homesick, but it's complicated - she'd never want to move back to China permanently, and when she goes back within a few weeks she wants to return to the UK, but she does say she occasionally struggles being so far away from her home.
When I say "18 months of conflict", perhaps that's an exaggeration of intensity/frequency. It's not "every couple of days we yell at each other and bring the house down" (in fact, I don't even think we've properly shouted at each other before - only raised voices). The majority of that time has been neutral or good, with arguments scattered among the 18 months:
>Minor arguments: Once every 2-3 weeks. Sours a day or two, usually resolves fairly quickly once things have calmed down and I've apologised for whatever it is I've done.
>Major arguments: Once every 1-2 months. It'll sour an entire weekend or longer, have her allude to breaking up, require extensive apologies from me (and I've written lengthly apology cards on several occasions where a verbal apology needed extra "punch"), she might look for flights home (but will never actually buy tickets).
Most of the time though, things are fine. I've suspected she might have PMDD, given it tends to happen around the time where she's on her period or takes a break in birth control - to the point where I've half-joked that we'd have some major fallout in a coming week when she mentions her period is about to start.
I think it mostly started to show after we moved in together. Scrolling back through lengthly texts she sometimes sends me post-arguments (>>33319857), the earlier ones I can find come just after we moved in.
Yes, she's Asian (suprised you were able to guess). She's a little homesick, but it's complicated - she'd never want to move back to China permanently, and when she goes back within a few weeks she wants to return to the UK, but she does say she occasionally struggles being so far away from her home.
When I say "18 months of conflict", perhaps that's an exaggeration of intensity/frequency. It's not "every couple of days we yell at each other and bring the house down" (in fact, I don't even think we've properly shouted at each other before - only raised voices). The majority of that time has been neutral or good, with arguments scattered among the 18 months:
>Minor arguments: Once every 2-3 weeks. Sours a day or two, usually resolves fairly quickly once things have calmed down and I've apologised for whatever it is I've done.
>Major arguments: Once every 1-2 months. It'll sour an entire weekend or longer, have her allude to breaking up, require extensive apologies from me (and I've written lengthly apology cards on several occasions where a verbal apology needed extra "punch"), she might look for flights home (but will never actually buy tickets).
Most of the time though, things are fine. I've suspected she might have PMDD, given it tends to happen around the time where she's on her period or takes a break in birth control - to the point where I've half-joked that we'd have some major fallout in a coming week when she mentions her period is about to start.
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