>>40031817
Oh I get what you're saying about the stereotypes. I won't lie, they aren't entirely wrong. I don't see the same depth in my guy friends that I personally feel. If women stereotype men they'd probably be right about most of the guys I know, but it certainly isn't all of us. There's as much variety within men as there is within women.
>idk what that tastes like, but it looks fruity on the site so I approve
It is a bit
>getting approached like 10+ times in one night
It sounds like a pain for sure
> trying to find a long term gf at a club might be why you're getting this vibe from women
There's never usually even time for there to be a disconnect in my experience. Usually just saying hi and asking for their name gets me angry glares and silence for the few seconds it takes before I get the message and fuck off. I certainly don't think I'll get a relationship from a club, but I don't know any women anywhere else in my life and I've never met anyone through my friends so I don't expect I'll ever find someone. I've only had one relationship in my life, and that was 12 years ago when I was 16. In my entire adult life I've never had any experience, despite being in shape, decent looking and a faithful, respectful person. I'm going to reach my 30's with no experience, by which case my only options will be women who've had their fun and are ready to settle down and I just won't be down for that. Feels like being a back up plan for a generation of women who neglected me and treated me like shit, who ultimately ended up single because they couldn't get commitment out of the men they actually wanted
>I would also expect your heart to still be mad at them
Words can't describe it. Nobody owes me attention or commitment. However, if I'm always respectful it hurts when even the rejection isn't done respectfully. I don't even feel human