>go on first date with cute girl
>seemingly goes really well
>we spend the whole day together
>get drinks
>hold hands and make out a bunch of times
>she asks me weird questions about red flags, i.e. whether I have a drinking/drug/gambling problem (I don't), which I assumed meant that she was considering something long-term with me
>go home having had a great time and assuming that she did as well

>a few days later try to plan second date
>she goes really coy and says that she's super busy with work and friends and has the rest of August planned out

What the fuck, I thought she really liked me
I still haven't responded to her last message because I'm at a loss for words. I don't want to tell her to go fuck herself but I also don't want to pretend this isn't weird
She said she was autistic; maybe she doesn't realize how insane she sounds when she says her schedule is booked a month in advance

Any ideas? Post gender