Dark and stormy with extra lime. Being a new dad is hard. My daughter is 3 weeks old and hates being held by me. She just screams and tries to fight her way out of my arms. Between this and the sleep deprivation, I'm almost at the end of my rope. I know it's just a phase and she's too young to process a concept as complicated as disliking a specific person but when she will settle down for literally anybody but me, i can't help but be hurt. I really really don't enjoy being a parent so far and i hope that changes because i want to love my kid as much as I'm supposed to.