>>33230500
I have a coworker I’m interested in.
The main problem is kind of normal actually, I just don’t know how to deal with it.
I don’t want to join the list of men that fucked her up.
>She’s been harassed by our customers.
>She’s had two lovers before.
>One, I think she described as abusive, but it sounded more like a financial burden who cheated on her.
>The other was a recent breakup. According to unreliable rumors, this may have been our supervisor.
>she has stated that she doesn’t know when she’ll find someone again but wants to.
>and she’s just naturally talkative and friendly so I don’t know if anything here is mutual.
Therefore, I’m worried I’ll just be stepping on a sore subject with her. I have a few ideas on how to spend more time with her outside of work, but the fact that I see her as a mate makes me worried I’ll come off the same way as the guys that inappropriately touch her.

I’m also going to include a list of pros and cons I know about her for the sake of context.
Pros:
>we are the same age
>I’m switching departments in a few weeks, leaving by October at the latest, and she’s leaving in August. So coworker relationship ethics aren’t really in question anymore.
>sexually active
>wants to settle down with a man
Cons:
>see above.
>I’d probably be taking on some extra chaos in my life.
Neutral:
>she has a vaping addiction she’s trying to quit
>her dad’s a veteran. I am also a veteran. I fully expect a long dick measuring contest.
>lets face it. I have no right to say someone else’s life is too fucked up for me.