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>some people count people who did stuff like oral sex or anal as being virgins
Yes and some people consider the earth to be flat. Consensus is not correctness in every case. But I digress

I guess the question here is; would your prospective husband consider you a virgin? More importantly; Why are you afraid to tell him? The answer to the latter is obvious. He may be furious. He may call off the relationship. But know that if you persist and he finds out later that will not save you. It will only make the wound deeper for both of you. As where if you tell him now there is a better chance he will forgive you.

As I have said though, the choice is yours. No one can force your hand.