>be me
>18
>meet cute guy at a party
>we go upstairs
>he puts it in for like 3 seconds
>pulls out and cums on the bedsheet
>never even thrusted
>didn't bleed, didn't hurt
>tell my bf I'm still a virgin
i'm still a virgin right? we are waiting until marriage.

>>81767517 (OP)
tell your bf and let him decide

>>81767517 (OP)
hi Stacy, sorry(?) about that. It was my first time, too.

>>81767517 (OP)
I mean, no? Of course you aren't.

>>81767540
idk im scared i might tell him after we do it
>>81767568
why tho

>>81767517 (OP)
>>81767583
You're legitimately an evil person

You're pushing 30 and still pretending to be a girl on 4chan.
Grow up.

>>81767517 (OP)
Kek. Bitch got a taste of actual awkward sex and is now trying to pretend it never happened. Well at least you didn't metoo the poor guy

>>81767587
what how am i evil i just want to have a good relationship with my husband and to make him feel good about himself
>>81767594
you can hardly count it as sex i think you can't count it

sometimes people say things do earnestly and honestly that it's acute so cute to me and i want to hold them and stroke their head like awwwwwwwwww you're happy about something that's so cute i love you

>>81767583
Cuz penis was inside vagina. It's simple really.

>>81767517 (OP)
Bait thread but penetration = non-virgin

>>81767605
Lying by omission, but worse and actually evil is your reasoning why. It would be one thing to lie because you're ashamed or embarrassed, but to lie because you're afraid?

I feel sorry for the guy going to marry an evil person

>>81767605
>want to have a good relationship with my husband
Good relationships are built on honesty.

>hardly count it
Hardly. But you can count it. Once you have had a penis inside of your body you are no longer a virgin. Realistically once you have committed a real sexual act to include "hand stuff" you aren't a virgin, as virginity is more about innocence than anything else.

No one here can force you to be honest with your fiance. But know that the truth will rear its head one day. People always take bad news worse when it has been concealed from them.

>>81767659
but it seems like it would only have a negative effect on our relationship so is it even worth talking about?
>>81767669
>Once you have had a penis inside of your body you are no longer a virgin.
only the tip was in and some people count people who did stuff like oral sex or anal as being virgins

>>81767694
If you are "waiting until marriage" then he has a right to know. Otherwise you are sustaining your relationship on a lie.

Imagine that, at the wedding altar to begin the rest of your life together, and your very first act is to lie to him.

>>81767517 (OP)
evil christian nr. 90433679006321568900055435674269

>>81767742
but every benefit of being with a virgin he gets from me so it it worth breaking up a happy relationship over something so trivial?
>>81767789
i wasnt christian he was the one who actually suggested we wait

>>81767694
>some people count people who did stuff like oral sex or anal as being virgins
Yes and some people consider the earth to be flat. Consensus is not correctness in every case. But I digress

I guess the question here is; would your prospective husband consider you a virgin? More importantly; Why are you afraid to tell him? The answer to the latter is obvious. He may be furious. He may call off the relationship. But know that if you persist and he finds out later that will not save you. It will only make the wound deeper for both of you. As where if you tell him now there is a better chance he will forgive you.

As I have said though, the choice is yours. No one can force your hand.

>>81767837
>he finds out later
that is literally never going to happen unless i tell him

>>81767517 (OP)
Having awkward sex does not mean you didn't lose your virginity.
You had sex. You are not a virgin. End of story.
Stop lying to your bf.

>>81767517 (OP)
Ran through beef curtains roastie.

>>81767979
i am a virgin and i have an innie

>>81767859
>unless i tell him
And you will. Or someone you have told will.

Even in the hypothetical world where it never happens, are you comfortable building your relationship on a lie? With hiding things from him? Would you be okay with him hiding such things from you?

What if he cheats on you "just a little bit" and justifies not saying anything as "it would only hurt our relationship?" Consider these things

>>81768006
Show hymen.

>>81767517 (OP)
Would you let a sea monkey sleep with you? I promise I last more than 3 seconds

>>81768008
i haven't told anyone except this anonymous board and it happened in a different state
>>81768047
no and you ignored a thread by a femanon saying she was interested in short sea guys so you are larping

>>81767517 (OP)
Youre not even being honest. You think youre cooler than who exactly?

>>81768062
I did post there and the thread got remove

imagine there was some way for OP to prove they weren't a larping tranny. oh wait nvm r9ktards fall for it anyway

>>81768105
why would i post my tits on this board when i have a boyfriend?

81768129
>no voca
okay sir

>>81767517 (OP)
bait thread kill yourself you whore