I turned 25 last month, and I've been an incel this entire time. (I believe covid fucked me over for a few years, though.) I've never had a girlfriend before. The furthest I've gone with a girl without paying for anything was making out with a 24-year-old woman when I was 15. I am virtually unemployed (Aside from occasionally helping my dad at work on certain days.), receive around $15000 a year in NEETbucks, and I live with my dad. I consider myself to be somewhere between a 3 to 4/10 in looks, but only due to obesity. I am 5'11 and jacked and on steroids, having started lifting in 2013, but I need to lose around 60 pounds of fat before I'll be lean. Once I'm lean, I speculate I'll be somewhere between a 7 to 8/10 in looks. I believe I have decent facial genetics.

Here's the thing, though. I'm carless, and I've been this way since my mid teens. I had a tall, beautiful athlete stacy crushing on me in high school, and I didn't ask her out in large part due to feeling as though I couldn't have a relationship due to not having a car, but also in large part due to fear of creating an awkward environment in class if the relationship didn't work out. I guess I was thinking back then that a breakup or deadening of the relationship would have to be nasty or really awkward, especially since I would be sharing classes with them.

I should mention I have OCD, and I believe this explains a lot of issues in my life, including why I still don't have a driver license. The insomnia caused by my OCD is the reason I am unemployed. I can't maintain a schedule. I wouldn't be able to hold a 9 to 5 or any A time to B time job.

So, at my age, and with my current states, could I still get a girlfriend while being carless? What should I expect?