>>81790499
>wtf why is she stressing over hurting someone and hesitant to do it?

>go hiking with my parents and grandfather
>when we get back home, my grandfather starts looking ill
>his face is red, he's breathing heavily, his eyes are unfocused
>I ask him if he's okay
>he gives a small smile and goes "Probably not, no. I think I'd like to go see a doctor, if it's not too much trouble."
>a few seconds later, he starts coughing and choking violently
>we rush him to the hospital
>it was a severe allergy attack that takes him hours to recover from even with the hospital trying their best
>a nurse says that if he'd arrived 30 minutes later, he'd be dead
>Grandpa is fine now and joking about it
>"I can't believe it I almost died just from being around a damn flower. I know I'm in my 80s, but that excuse only goes so far. Glad the hospital saved me, would have been a lame way to go."
Is this toxic masculinity? Why do men have to larp as super tuff and kewl badasses every second of every day?