Here is what I learned

in contexts of fear, anxiety, and stress, sexual desire can increase, especially among women. Stress hormones also activate pleasure centers in the brain. Thus, anxiety can generate attachment and attraction, even in negative situations. If you provoke fear or uncertainty in a woman, you can "capture" her emotional and sexual attention, as she becomes chemically dependent on the sensations associated with stress.

A man's perceived value increases when he is less emotionally and physically available. Scarce men are seen as more desirable, as human nature values what is rare and fears loss. If you provoke emotional confusion through emotional withdrawal and ambiguity, you can increase a woman's attraction, causing her to work harder to win you over. Playing "hard to get" and prioritizing freedom over commitment is a strategy for appearing valuable and desirable.