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7/14/2025, 7:23:17 PM
OP you are right.
My life would be so much better if I was a gay dude, but I have no attraction to men whatsoever.
Apparently my fashion sense, and way I express myself is very "gay-coded". I get hit on by gay dudes all the time, and some women friends I've had have asked me if I was gay out of curiosity and were surprised when I said no.
Gay dudes seem to be a lot more upfront with how they feel and are a lot more pragmatic with romantic/sexual involvement compared to women.
BUT I'M FUCKING HET :(. I'm attracted to women exclusively because of my brain chemistry, but the straight dating scene is so absurdly fucked up and full of so many different expectations and strange double standards that It's near impossible to be yourself authentically and still have any girl show interest in you, not to mention how the dating apps are all scams, and the current tensions between the genders.
My life would be so much better if I was a gay dude, but I have no attraction to men whatsoever.
Apparently my fashion sense, and way I express myself is very "gay-coded". I get hit on by gay dudes all the time, and some women friends I've had have asked me if I was gay out of curiosity and were surprised when I said no.
Gay dudes seem to be a lot more upfront with how they feel and are a lot more pragmatic with romantic/sexual involvement compared to women.
BUT I'M FUCKING HET :(. I'm attracted to women exclusively because of my brain chemistry, but the straight dating scene is so absurdly fucked up and full of so many different expectations and strange double standards that It's near impossible to be yourself authentically and still have any girl show interest in you, not to mention how the dating apps are all scams, and the current tensions between the genders.
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